5 things to please refrain from doing. reminders for you (and for me, too).

1- hanging out with peeps that are negative, emotionally draining or just plain fucking exhausting to be around. why do it? people will try to bring you (drag you-) to the level on which they themselves operate – but only if you let them. so don’t.

2- talking about other people’s personal business when it has nothing to do with you. you’re an asshole if you think nobody regards this as gossiping. keep your side of the street clean and so will i. thanks!

3- worrying about things you can’t control (e.g., other people, eventual outcomes and when your ship will finally come in). let me expound: worrying is a waste of your precious time. stop.

4- sabotaging yourself. look, you have to be your own best friend. be nice to yourself. take a fucking epsom salt bath or something. go to dairy queen and get a dip cone. quit beating yourself up all the time; it’s uncomfortable to watch, ok?

5- projecting. it isn’t pretty. when you project your bullshit on me + i project my lifetime of mistakes and lame choices on you, the circle game starts. step outside of the circle. better yet, don’t start drawing it in the first place. you’ve got better things to do, right?

right?

@littlebrownbutterfly

5 Thoughts on “5 things to please refrain from doing. reminders for you (and for me, too).

  1. Anonymous on February 6, 2013 at 6:25 pm said:

    ..on my way to get the dip cone, thanks!
    Pilar

  2. pilar, i ate two yesterday. xxo

  3. Hey Lisa I read your blog post and liked it. You’re awesome.

  4. andrew! thank you kindly sir.

  5. Anonymous on February 10, 2013 at 10:10 am said:

    Love it

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